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1. How old are you?

I was born in Los Angeles in the summer of 1969.

2. What is your ethnic background?

I don't know, I was adopted and grew up in eastern Montana where wild mustangs still roam free!

3. Are you married?

I've never been married and I don't have any kids.

4. How long have you been in business?

I've been involved in various aspects of adult entertainment since 1997.

5. Are you bi-sexual?

The term 'bi-sexual' is really quite nebulous. I have certainly enjoyed many intense and erotic experiences with women! They have been mainly playful, explorative, healing, or fun, work-related ventures. I would certainly never rule out the possibility of meeting someone special who makes me tingle, shares common dreams, and happens to be female but I generally fall head over heels for sexy, creative, boys who refuse to grow up!

6. Do you enjoy your work?

Absolutely! There are many aspects of this business that are wonderful. I love body work and and having so much freedom and flexibility. I have always felt most comfortable in intimate social situations and love to be involved in what I believe to be important and healing work. It is difficult, of course, to manage the constant threat created by negative judgments as well as the challenges posed by working closely with the most sensitive aspect of human experience... SEX!

7. What is an erotic-massage?

In an erotic-massage, the sensations are primarily sensuous, playful and arousing. It may also incorporate other "tools of pleasure" to provide full-body stimulation concluding in that special sigh of absolute relaxation! I believe touch, affection, and tension relief of all kinds to be immensely important to health and well-being.

8. Is the incorporation of your 'Strap-On' or other tools required during a session?

No, of course not!

9. Are you a Dominatrix?

I don't consider myself to specialize in professional BDSM. During my sessions, I remain in control but this is primarily for my own comfort and not a power play.

10. Do you feel powerful with your "Strap-On"?

This is always a strange question! I do feel 'powerful' in that I feel well defended against uninvited touch and the spread of germs. I also feel wonderfully equipped to provide safe physical and psychological pleasure, which, in my opinion, is one of the highest manifestations of power! I find that my "Strap-On" is visually stimulating and it is always fun to excite people! I do not, however, define 'power' to exist in the phallus itself or in any object shaped to represent it, nor does it feel like I have a penis when I wear a leather harness and a piece of plastic! (But its a lot of fun to wear!)

11. Do you enjoy submissive clients?

I believe there is great beauty for both men and women in the sharing of trust and vulnerability. BDSM play can be a rewarding and healing exploration of such intense and deep-seated human responses. Unfortunately, it is my experience that many submissive clients of sex-workers are interested mainly in a secretive, possibly unconscious expression of self-loathing, underlying misogyny and fear, or sexual frustration and dissatisfaction. They also often attempt to 'top from the bottom' and gain emotional or physical power in a way that undermines mutual trust and respect.

There is much I would like to say about this sad and painful reality, but more importantly, I do not wish to profit from such action or be responsible for its greater consequence to either party involved. I believe the process of self-awareness and the development of greater self-love to be the most important aspect of joyful living and I am always willing to explore these ideas and share in the process of discovery and healing on an emotional and intellectual level as well as provide physical comfort.

12. Do you get pleasure from using your "Strap-On"?

I always get pleasure from giving pleasure! There is not a lot of physical stimulation for me but my sessions are more focused on what I am able to do for someone else... There can be quite an exhilarating exchange of energy!

13. Does my desire to be with you and your "Strap-On" mean that I'm gay?

Well, it is my understanding that it is not the action which takes place or the implements used that determines sexual orientation, but rather the gender of those involved or possibly of those being imagined. Of course, this is always a complex question for me as I personally do not agree with either our binary gender code, or the qualities assigned to our concepts of masculinity and femininity. It is commonly believed, for example, that only women should experience or enjoy penetration (or the more passive, receptive role during sex) that is one of the main causes of concern in the first place.This is not only simply ridiculous and outright false, but disturbing in its greater implication.

I feel that this concern is sad in that it is feared and I believe many people do not fall into narrow "straight" categories of hetersexuality or homosexuality.

14. Are your sessions safe and healthy?

Latex is a great protection against germs for toys and hands as well. I do not specialize in activity that involves pain or physical trauma and my larger toys are only for the more experienced. It is false belief that internal genital or anal muscle tissue may be 'stretched out'. Like any muscle, they remain strong and elastic through contraction which is possible only via relaxation. The fastest way to weaken a muscle is actually through prolonged tension. Many people have genital or anal tension and suffer from weakened pelvic floor muscles and experience health problems such as the loss of bladder control. Penetration provides a great way to concentrate on relaxing and contracting these muscles. However, it is possible to irritate the sensitive tissue in these areas so one must use caution! Again, this is much more likely to happen when a muscle is tense and in a weakened state.

It is my belief that anal play is not only wonderfully pleasurable and great physical exercise but also provides the release of many emotional fears and harmful feelings of disgust for the body. Those of us who have learned to relax this muscle also know how much pleasure there is to be had from its stimulation and men are lucky enough to have a prostate which is highly sensitive. There have not been any scientific studies (that I know of) of the effects of this type of stimulation or its long-term results as far as prostate health, but I would be very interested to know. Unfortunately, medicine suffers from severe cultural bias and most doctors are probably much too deluded by gendered sexual beliefs and fear to be anything but mistrustful or outright aghast at such a suggestion. I have had many clients tell me that their doctor said it was unhealthy and that always makes me so angry!

15. How much do you charge?

Please call to discuss session fees.

16. Can you describe your ideal session?

Again, it is difficult to express, but my ideal session involves sincere conversation. I like to get to know people as well as what is desired and expected. I appreciate it when I am able to relax and enjoy doing what I do best. This requires the recipient to have the ability to clear the mind, release expectation, focus on physical and emotional sensation, and be receptive. I believe the ability to let go of control develops only through self-respect and confidence. Therefore, my session becomes a unique opportunity to increase such skills! Take Good Care, Jennadea